‘There are a lot of bad dominants, mostly men, where it’s basically abuse dressed up as a kink’: victim-survivors’ everyday navigation of BDSM, kink and fetish

Walling-Wefelmeyer, R. ORCID: https://orcid.org/0009-0004-8609-8375 and O'Neil, T. (2021) ‘There are a lot of bad dominants, mostly men, where it’s basically abuse dressed up as a kink’: victim-survivors’ everyday navigation of BDSM, kink and fetish. Child and Family Law Quarterly, 33 (4). pp. 363-377. ISSN 1358-8184

Abstract/Summary

Concerns about the legal landscape of BDSM are being reinvigorated today through public attention to the issue of ‘rough sex’ defences for homicide and abuse. Victim-survivors have orientated around the language of ‘rough sex’ to express concerns about practices across a variety of contexts, from established BDSM relationships to casual heterosex. As such, this paper provides victim-survivors’ everyday navigation of activities and languages around BDSM, kink and fetish. It finds the following key themes as being crucial to participants’ understandings of safe and satisfying practice: (a) communication and recognition of agentic others; (b) community learning and accountability; and (c) being playful and bounded, but not too bounded. This paper presents these as a call to understand how some ‘rough sex’ defences not only excuse or obscure abusive practices but also stigmatise and marginalise certain BDSM, kink and fetish practitioners and communities.

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Divisions	Arts, Humanities and Social Science > School of Law
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